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Feeling the FOMO? Why You May Feel So Tired This Summer

In Posts by Juila Bursey

Why You May Be More Tired in the Summer 

If you’ve found yourself feeling more tired than usual lately, you’re not alone. Despite longer days and brighter mornings, many people report feeling more fatigued in the summer months — and not in a lazy, beachy kind of way, but in a more restless, low-capacity, something-feels-off kind of way.

While summer often brings an expectation of energy, activity, and adventure (FOMO anybody??), it can also quietly disrupt our internal systems in ways that aren’t always obvious. If you’ve been wondering why you’re more exhausted than usual, here are a few factors that might be playing a role — and some gentle reminders that you’re not “just being lazy.”

Longer Days Can Disrupt Natural Sleep Rhythms

When daylight stretches well into the evening, it may take longer for your brain to register that it’s time to wind down. Our circadian rhythm — the internal clock that tells us when to wake and sleep — is sensitive to light. Summer’s extended daylight can delay melatonin production (the hormone that helps you feel sleepy), meaning you might fall asleep later, but still wake at the same time, especially if you have early morning obligations.

Over time, this can lead to a subtle but consistent sleep debt. You might not even realize it’s building — but your body does. But here’s the truth, you actually can never repay a sleep debt. Check out this great podcast on sleep!

Hotter Nights Can Make for Poorer Sleep

If you’re tossing and turning more than usual, it could be due to warmer nighttime temperatures. Quality sleep requires a slight drop in body temperature, and when your bedroom is too hot, your body has a harder time settling into deep, restorative sleep. Even with a fan or open windows, many people don’t realize how much summer heat impacts sleep depth.

Social and Seasonal Pressure to “Make the Most of It”

Summer carries a unique kind of cultural pressure — the sense that this is the season we’re supposed to “do more,” “get out there,” and take advantage of every opportunity. From packed weekends to extended daylight productivity, it can feel like there's no space to slow down. Even rest can come with a side of guilt.

That quiet voice that says, “I should be outside right now,” or “I should be making plans,” can leave you mentally and emotionally overstimulated — even when you're technically doing less.

This ongoing push to meet seasonal expectations can drain your energy reserves in subtle ways. And when your nervous system is running in the background trying to “keep up,” fatigue is a natural outcome. I certainly know what it’s like to feel like I need to optimize every moment of sunshine, but remind yourself, DEEP BREATH, you are not wasting time that is meant to be restful (there’s no such thing!)

Woman sitting in a hammock in a mountain forest overlooking a calm lake, enjoying a peaceful moment away from societal pressures
The Invisible Load of Unstructured Time

While summer is often framed as carefree and open, it can actually carry more decision fatigue. The lack of routine (especially if you’re a parent, caregiver, or student) can bring more planning, juggling, and energy spent managing the unknown.

Without clear anchors in the day or week, your system may feel a low-grade hum of unpredictability — which, for many, is exhausting.

Some Gentle Reminders
  • Your body and brain are adjusting to seasonal shifts — it makes sense that you’re feeling it.
  • Fatigue doesn’t always mean something is wrong. Sometimes it means something is asking for attention.
  • There’s nothing to prove by being constantly energized. Rest is allowed — even in July/August.
  • If guilt is creeping in, try asking: What would it be like to listen to my body, instead of overriding it?

Lastly, a simple offering, is to set an intention, when feeling overwhelmed. These can be some great questions to start

What do I want to feel more of today (or this week)?
What matters most to me right now?
What is one small action that aligns with how I want to show up?
Where can I give myself more permission or grace?

You’re allowed to take up space in this season, even if that space looks quieter than expected.

Where’s the best place to hang that hammock?

With love,

Julia

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